From First Contact to First Call Here's What Happens. Here's What Happens.

Before any program begins, TPP needs to understand your situation. The intake process is a structured, human-led assessment designed to determine whether the program is the right fit, set the right program length, and connect you with the right support team. This page walks through every step — no ambiguity, no surprises.

THE INTAKE PATHWAY AT A GLANCE

1

You make contact — online or by phone

Assessment form or free consultation request. Takes under 10 minutes.

2

TPP schedules your assessment call

Within 48 hours. With a counselor or assessment specialist.

3

The assessment call — 45–60 minutes

Counselor evaluates fit, volatility, and program length. Human judgment only.

4

Enrollment, assignments & Month 1 begins

Counselor, financial coach, and nutritionist assigned. First recorded call scheduled.

48 hrs

to first response after contact

9–12 mo

program length set at assessment

1 call

is all it takes to know if you qualify

Who This Is For

Is TPP the Right Fit Before You Apply?

The intake process starts with a brief assessment form — but before you fill it out, it helps to know whether TPP's program is designed for your situation. The program is specific by design. It works best for families who match what it was built to address.

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You are separated or divorced with at least one shared child

TPP is built specifically for co-parents — two people who no longer share a household but share the responsibility of raising a child. If you are still in a relationship with your co-parent, this program is not the right fit.

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Communication between you and your co-parent has broken down

Whether conflict is frequent, tense, or simply non-functional — if co-parent communication is a source of ongoing stress for your household, TPP is designed to address it directly through a structured, counselor-guided process.

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You want a court-free path forward

TPP is a voluntary, non-judicial program. Families who enroll are choosing to address conflict through structure and professional guidance rather than litigation. No court order is required to enroll — and no court reporting occurs from the program.

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You are ready for a 9–12 month structured commitment

TPP is not a one-time mediation session or a quick-fix resource. It is a longitudinal program with two recorded calls per month, counselor follow-up, financial coaching, and nutrition support. It works because it is sustained — and it requires sustained engagement.

This Program Is Not For

Situations Outside
TPP's Scope

TPP's program boundaries exist to protect families — including yours. The following situations require different services, and TPP will help connect you to the appropriate resources if needed.

✗Families where domestic violence, abuse, or an active protective order is involved — TPP cannot safely facilitate co-parent communication in these circumstances
✗Intact couples who are still together — the program is designed for separated co-parents navigating two-household life
✗Families seeking legal advice, representation, or court advocacy — TPP does not provide legal services of any kind
✗Families in acute crisis requiring immediate mental health intervention — TPP is a stabilization program, not a crisis response service
✗Parents with no shared children or no ongoing co-parenting responsibility
Common Question

Does my co-parent have to agree to enroll?

One parent can begin the intake process independently. TPP will assess your situation and determine how to proceed. In some cases, the program can begin with one parent engaged — and the second is invited to participate as the relationship develops. Enrollment of both parents is the goal; it is not always the starting point. The assessment call will clarify what's possible in your specific situation.

The Intake Process

Four Steps from First Contact
to Active Enrollment

Every family goes through the same process. It's designed to be thorough enough to make a sound clinical judgment, and lean enough to not require weeks of back-and-forth before anything begins.

1
First
Contact

You Make Contact — Online or by Phone

The intake process begins when you reach out to TPP. There are two ways to start: completing the online assessment form, or scheduling a free 30-minute consultation call first. Both lead to the same next step — a scheduled assessment call with a counselor.

The online assessment form takes approximately 8–12 minutes. It collects basic information about your co-parenting situation, communication patterns, and what prompted you to seek help. No sensitive personal data, legal records, or financial details are required at this stage. You are providing context — not documentation.

Option A
Complete the online assessment form at tpp.org/get-help/start-assessment — 8–12 minutes. You'll receive a confirmation with your reference number and next steps within 48 hours.
Option B
Schedule a free 30-minute consultation call first if you want to talk with someone before committing to the full assessment form. The consultation has no obligation.
📅 TPP responds to all intake submissions within 48 business hours
2
Schedule

TPP Schedules Your Assessment Call

After your form is received and reviewed, TPP contacts you within 48 hours to schedule your assessment call. The assessment call is a structured, 45–60 minute conversation conducted by a counselor or designated assessment specialist — not an automated system, not a chatbot, and not an intake form in disguise.

You will receive a calendar confirmation, a brief overview of what the call will cover, and any simple preparation notes. The call is conducted via telehealth — phone or video — on your schedule. If you have a preference for time of day or day of the week, TPP will accommodate it.

Who conducts it
A licensed counselor or trained assessment specialist — the same person may become your program counselor if you enroll.
Format
Telehealth — phone or secure video. No travel required. No in-person appointment necessary at any point in the program.
Duration
45–60 minutes. Enough time to have a real conversation — not enough to be exhausting.
Who should be on it
One parent can complete the assessment alone. The other co-parent is not required to participate at this stage, though their willingness to eventually engage will factor into the enrollment conversation.
3
Assessment
Call

The Assessment Call — A Human Judgment, Not a Formula

This is the most important step in the intake process. The assessment call is where a counselor evaluates your co-parenting situation to determine whether TPP is the right fit, and — if it is — what program length makes the most sense. No algorithm makes this determination. No automated score. A trained professional listens, asks questions, and makes a judgment call.

The counselor is evaluating several dimensions of your situation simultaneously. The goal is not to interrogate you or assign blame — it is to build an accurate picture of where communication has broken down and what kind of structure will be most useful for your family.

Communication patterns
How do you and your co-parent currently interact? What topics consistently escalate? What topics stay manageable? Where does communication break down most reliably?
Volatility level
The counselor assesses how entrenched conflict is — not to label you, but to determine whether a 9-month or 12-month program is more appropriate. Higher volatility requires more time.
Child situation
Age, custody arrangement, how the children are currently experiencing the co-parenting relationship. The child's stability is the program's north star throughout.
Wraparound needs
Financial stress, housing, employment, nutrition — the counselor identifies which of TPP's support services are most relevant and flags potential partner referrals (Workforce Commission, HHS, etc.) for Month 1 activation.
👥 The decision to accept a family into the program is always made by a human professional — never by an intake form or scoring system
4
Enroll &
Begin

Enrollment, Assignments, and Month 1 Begins

Once the assessment call is complete and enrollment is confirmed, TPP moves quickly to set up your program. The goal is to have your support team assigned and your first recorded call scheduled within the first two weeks. Month 1 is the most intensive onboarding period of the entire program.

Each enrolled family receives a dedicated counselor who stays with them for the full program length. This is not a rotating-staff model — continuity matters for the kind of trust and skill development the program is built on. Your counselor is your primary point of contact throughout.

Primary Counselor
Assigned at enrollment. Stays with your family for the entire 9–12 months. Conducts your recorded call reviews and monthly follow-ups.
Financial Coach
Introduced in Month 1. 3 hours across 4 sessions, beginning with an income and expense assessment and two-household budget framework.
Nutritionist
Introduced in Month 1. 5 hours across 7 sessions — beginning with a review of current eating habits and budget-aligned meal strategies for both households.
Partner Referrals
Workforce Commission, HHS, and educational partners activated in Month 1 where applicable — based on the needs identified in the assessment call, not as a blanket protocol.
🎓 Consent documentation and program agreement are completed at enrollment — before any recorded calls begin
The Assessment Call in Detail

What the Counselor Is Actually Listening For

Parents sometimes arrive at the assessment call braced for a test they might fail. It isn't that. The counselor isn't looking for the "right" answers — they're building an accurate picture of your situation so the program can be structured correctly for your family. Here's what's actually being evaluated:

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Current communication patterns between co-parents

How often do you communicate? Through what channels? What topics stay manageable, and which ones consistently escalate? The counselor is mapping the terrain before designing the intervention.

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Conflict volatility and entrenchment

Is conflict recent and reactive, or has it been building over years? Is it primarily about logistics, money, or something more entrenched? Volatility level directly determines whether a 9-month or longer program length is appropriate.

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Child's experience and stability

How are the children doing? What does the custody or parenting schedule currently look like? Is the child's school, health, or emotional wellbeing being affected by the co-parenting dynamic? The child's situation is the program's reference point throughout.

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Financial and structural stressors

Is financial conflict a driver of co-parenting tension? Is employment instability, housing, or childcare access adding to household stress? These are assessed not to be intrusive, but because they directly shape which wraparound services get activated in Month 1.

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Readiness and willingness to engage

Is this parent ready for a structured, months-long commitment? Do they understand that both co-parents will eventually need to participate in the recorded call cycle? Readiness isn't about perfection — it's about honest engagement with the process.

What's Decided After the Assessment Call

Three decisions come out of one conversation.

The assessment call produces three concrete outputs. All three are made by the counselor based on professional judgment — not by a rubric, a score, or an algorithm.

Decision 1
Accepted or Not Yet
Whether the program is the right fit for this family at this time. If not, the counselor provides specific alternative referrals.
Decision 2
9, 10, 11, or 12 Months
Program length is set based on assessed volatility and complexity. Higher conflict = longer program. This is determined once, at assessment.
Decision 3
Support Team Assigned
Counselor, financial coach, and nutritionist are matched to the family. Partner referrals flagged for Month 1 activation.
Decision 4
Call Schedule Set
The twice-monthly recorded call cadence is established — same recurring days and times where possible for consistency.
Begin Your Assessment
Why This Decision Is Never Automated

Risk assessment, volatility judgment, and program length decisions are made by a trained professional — not by a scoring system, questionnaire result, or intake form. This is deliberate.

Co-parenting conflict is nuanced in ways that standardized screening tools routinely miss. A family that scores "low volatility" on paper may have dynamics a counselor immediately recognizes as requiring a longer program. The assessment call exists because human judgment is irreplaceable in this context.

The app records the decision. The counselor makes it.

Once You're Enrolled

Month 1 Is the Most Important Month.
Here's Exactly What It Contains.

Month 1 is the program's orientation and baseline-setting phase. More happens in Month 1 than in any other single month — and that's by design. Front-loading support removes the structural stressors that prevent communication from improving in the first place.

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Counselor

Orientation & Baseline Assessment

Your counselor conducts an extended 1-hour intake session — reviewing family history, child needs, and baseline communication patterns. Two additional sessions begin the recorded call cycle and introduce program expectations.

3 counselor hours in Month 1 (vs. 2 hrs in all other months)
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Financial Coach

Income, Expenses & Two-Household Budget

Your financial coach conducts a 1-hour session to assess income and expenses across both households. They introduce a two-household budget framework and identify where financial stress is most likely to generate co-parenting conflict.

1 financial coaching hour in Month 1
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Nutritionist

Eating Habits Review & Meal Strategy

Your nutritionist reviews current eating habits in both households and provides initial, budget-aligned meal strategies. The goal in Month 1 is to establish a baseline — not overhaul everything at once.

1 nutrition hour in Month 1
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Partner Referrals

Workforce, HHS & Education Activation

Where employment, training, housing, or food assistance needs were identified in the assessment, partner referrals to Workforce Commission, HHS, and community colleges are activated immediately — not later in the program.

Activated Month 1 — revisited at Month 6
The Recorded Call Cycle — How It Works Every Month

Each recorded call generates four hours of structured support. This happens twice a month — for the full program.

This is the core mechanism of TPP's communication intervention. Two parent-to-parent calls per month, each followed by counselor review, feedback, and a structured follow-up session. The counselor is never on the live call — they review it afterward and use it as the basis for professional guidance.

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Co-Parent Call
15–30 min
Both parents speak on the secure, HIPAA-compliant recorded line. Topics: scheduling, child logistics, finances, or whatever the current co-parenting situation requires. The counselor is not present.
02
Counselor Review
15 min
The counselor listens to the recorded call. They write a professional evaluation — noting communication patterns, escalation points, skill development, and areas for guidance. Parents do not receive the recording by default.
03
Counselor Callback
30 min
The counselor calls the parents to discuss what they observed, provide structured feedback, reinforce communication skills, and work through any issues that emerged on the recorded call.
04
Session Close-Out
15 min
Documentation, note-writing, and session close-out. The counselor records observations and schedules the next cycle. Total counselor time per call cycle: 1 hour.
Per call cycle: 1 hr counselor time
Per month: 2 cycles = 2 hrs
9-month program: 18 cycles + 1 intake = 19 hrs total
Getting Ready for Your Assessment

What to Have on Hand Before Your Assessment Call

You don't need to prepare extensively for the assessment call — but having a few things in mind before you get on the phone makes the conversation more useful for everyone. None of this is documentation you'll need to submit. It's context that helps the counselor help you.

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About Your Co-Parenting Situation
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●How long you and your co-parent have been separated
●The current custody or parenting schedule, even informally
●The topics that most commonly cause conflict between you — scheduling, money, child decisions, communication style
●Whether there is a formal custody order in place or active legal proceedings
●How communication currently happens — text, phone, in person, through a third party
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About Your Child or Children
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●Ages of each child
●Any known health, developmental, or educational needs that affect co-parenting decisions
●How your children are handling the current situation, as best you can observe
●Whether the children are in school, and whether school has flagged any concerns
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About Financial & Household Stressors
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●Whether financial conflict (child support, shared expenses, budget disagreements) is a regular source of co-parenting tension
●Your general employment situation — full-time, part-time, looking for work, in school
●Whether housing, childcare, or food access are current stressors in either household
●Whether you or your co-parent has been connected to any social services (this helps with Month 1 referral planning)
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Questions to Bring to the Assessment Call
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●What program length do you think is appropriate for my situation?
●What happens if my co-parent refuses to participate in the recorded calls?
●How much does the program cost, and do I qualify for a sliding-scale fee?
●Will anything from this program be shared with the court or my attorney?
●What does graduation look like, and what do I leave with at the end?
What You Don't Need to Prepare

You don't need to arrive with
a case to make.

The assessment call is not a deposition. Parents sometimes prepare to argue their side of the co-parenting conflict or prove that their co-parent is the problem. That's not what this call is for — and it will slow the assessment down, not help it.

✓You do not need legal documents or custody orders — the counselor asks what's relevant
✓You do not need to have your co-parent's agreement before calling — one parent is enough to start
✓You do not need to prove that conflict exists — if you're calling, there's enough of a reason
✓You do not need to present yourself as the cooperative parent — the counselor will ask about both parents honestly
✓You do not need to have made a decision — the assessment call is part of deciding, not proof that you already have
Confidentiality & Your Privacy
✓The assessment call is confidential and HIPAA-compliant. It is not recorded without your explicit consent.
✓Nothing from your assessment call is shared with your co-parent, their attorney, or any court — without your written consent.
✓TPP does not provide court reports, legal testimony, or documentation of the assessment process to any external party.
✓If you do not enroll after the assessment call, your information is retained only as required by applicable law.
✓Recorded co-parent calls (which begin after enrollment, not at assessment) require documented consent from both parents before they begin.
Common Questions About Intake

What Families Ask Before
They Start

Does my co-parent have to know I'm contacting TPP? ▼
No. You can complete the assessment form and the assessment call on your own, without notifying your co-parent. The assessment process is confidential. If you enroll, the expectation is that your co-parent will eventually participate in the recorded call cycle — but that conversation happens at enrollment, not before you've even spoken with a counselor.
What if my co-parent refuses to participate? ▼
This is one of the most common concerns families bring to the assessment call. The counselor will discuss your specific situation and whether the program can begin with one parent while the other is still considering. In some cases, engagement from one parent — and the changes that produces — creates enough of a shift that the second parent becomes willing to participate. The counselor will be direct with you about what's realistic.
How is program length determined — 9, 10, 11, or 12 months? ▼
Program length is set by the counselor at the end of the assessment call, based on their professional evaluation of the conflict's volatility and complexity. More entrenched or high-conflict situations typically require the full 12-month program. Less volatile situations with more cooperative baseline communication may qualify for a 9-month program. The counselor explains their reasoning, and you have an opportunity to ask questions before agreeing to the program length.
Will anything from the program be used in court? ▼
TPP does not produce court reports, does not provide testimony, and does not share program records with courts or attorneys without a subpoena or your explicit written consent. The recorded call cycle is designed as a therapeutic and developmental tool — not a documentation system for legal proceedings. That said, if a subpoena is issued, TPP must comply with applicable law. Your counselor can discuss this in more detail during the assessment call.
How much does the program cost? ▼
The full 9-month program costs $5,655 per family. Sliding-scale fees are available for qualifying families — eligibility is assessed based on household income during the intake process. TPP also maintains a subsidy fund for families who cannot cover the cost independently. The financial coach introduced in Month 1 can help you think through cost as part of the two-household budget conversation. Full fee details are available at tpp.org/get-help/program-fees.
Can I do the program if we already have a custody order? ▼
Yes. Having a formal custody order in place does not disqualify you from the program — in fact, many families enroll specifically because a legal order exists but communication has not improved. TPP works within the framework of existing legal arrangements. It does not modify, challenge, or comment on custody orders. It focuses on the co-parenting relationship itself — which exists regardless of what any court document says.
What happens if the program isn't a fit after the assessment? ▼
If the counselor determines that TPP isn't the right fit — because of safety concerns, population mismatch, or a situation that requires a different level of intervention — they will say so directly and provide specific referrals to more appropriate services. The assessment call is not a sales conversation. If the program can't help you, we'll tell you, and we'll point you somewhere that can.
How is the recorded call different from being monitored? ▼
Both parents know the call is being recorded — there is audible notice at the start and visible confirmation in the app. The recording is reviewed by your counselor for professional guidance purposes only. Parents do not automatically receive access to the recording. The counselor controls what's shared and when. This is not a surveillance tool — it's a professional development instrument. The distinction matters, and your counselor will walk through it in detail before your first recorded call begins.

You Know What Happens Now

The Hardest Part Is Deciding to Start.

The intake process is designed to be as clear and low-pressure as possible. One form. One call. A professional who listens and gives you a direct answer about whether the program is right for you. If it is, you’ll know what happens next. If it isn’t, you’ll know where to go instead.

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